Showing posts with label relationships. Show all posts
Showing posts with label relationships. Show all posts
Thursday, May 24, 2012
God's Grace on the Golf Course
I played a round of golf with some friends the other day. That is an innocent enough statement. Please understand, I don't play golf nearly as much as I'd like to. The fact of the matter is, I play golf just enough to keep me wanting to play more. The golf course is not always friendly to me, and I'm sure there are people who are playing either with me, or behind me that wish I would choose a different part-time hobby.
The last time I was on the golf course, though, brought some lessons I would like to share. The four-some on the course decided it would be prudent for our schedules if we played two-man best ball. For those not familiar with golf terminology, that basically means that we had two, two man teams. After each person hit the ball, the team could choose which ball had the best lie and would be able to play their next ball from that spot. It makes for a quicker and lower scoring game.
On the first hole, my partner and I had some issues. We shot a +2 ~ two over par. My comment to my parnter upon entering the golf cart to go to the second hole, "New hole, new life." We had to consciously put that hole behind us. If we're not careful, we can dig ourselves a hole and get bogged down because of mistakes or bad days. It is a conscious choice to put mistakes behind us and start over. Incidentally, we went on to par the next few holes.
Later in that round of golf, I hit a shot on a par 3 that landed on the green. That's precisely what was supposed to happen. The reason I say it that way, is that many times, the shots I hit don't do 'what they're supposed to do.' The putt that followed surprised everyone on the green ~ especially me! It fell into the bottom of the cup! Yes, I birdied the hole. The positive words that came from both my partner and the two friends we were playing with served to encourage me. I've hit a lot of golf balls, but few have actually gone where I fully intended them to go. I was thankful for the good play, and equally thankful for the encouragement from my friends.
The back nine was not as kind on the whole. In fact, on one hole, both my partner and I hit our tee shots and we weren't sure where either of the balls landed. The trajectory of both balls were, to say the least, not headed for the fairway. The friends we were playing with extended grace. They offered to let us hit a mulligan. A mulligan is a 'do-over'. Hit another ball, without a penalty. We didn't deserve their kindness and generosity. We accepted it, of course, but we didn't deserve it by any means.
By the end of the round, both my partner and I were tired. He had driven a couple of hours just to get to where we played golf. I had stayed up all night working. Both of us were playing on bad knees. He didn't have any ligaments in one knee and I have a knee with basically bone on bone and no cartilege. As we approached the 18th tee, we were ready for the round to be over. But we finished the round. Good, bad, or ugly, we finished what we set out to do.
The fellowship was incredible! To be able to hang out with some of my best friends in the world is enough to make the day a great one. We are able to talk about a lot of things while we're enjoying a day on the golf course. We are able to talk about grace and how God's grace amazes us. We are able to discuss how we are able to extend grace to one another. We are able to put grace into action even as we miss a shot or hit a ball where we don't intend to. Those are mirrors of what God is to us. When we miss the opportunity to do what He wants us to do, or we are offended by someone's hurtful comments to us, we can practice extending grace.
All men are born sinners. We have all been condemned at birth. The Bible tells us that all have sinned and come short of God's glory (Romans 3:23). But we have all been extended grace. When we didn't deserve it, Christ took our place on the cross. Even in our most unlovely state, He chose to die for us (Romans 5:8). Be encouraged today to love someone in spite of their faults or quirks. Jesus set the example to love us; now let us love them.
Sunday, May 13, 2012
Happy Mother's Day, Mom!
Friday, December 23, 2011
Traditions of Christmas
What does sparklers and knit slippers have in common? What similarities do Leeds, Alabama and Thomasville, GA share? They each are a part of my childhood Christmas traditions.
Because of geographical situations, our family would usually alternate Christmas family visits. Mom's family gathered in Alabama, dad's in Georgia. It seemed like every time we were in Alabama, there were sparklers and other fireworks involved. Every trip to Grandmama Faison's yielded a pair of knit slippers.
Doesn't sound like much, but those memories are priceless to me today. All my grandparents, two aunts, an uncle, a cousin, and my dad have all died. Maybe because every year seemed to be in a different place, there weren't annual traditions much in our family for Christmas. I do remember, though, that our get-togethers began to change as time went on.
The grandkids grew up and got married. As we began to have families of our own, it was less likely to get together with our extended families. It was much more hectic because we were scattered more than ever before.
When I married, my wife brought a completely different set of memories and traditions to the table. For example, in our family, stockings at Christmas was little more than decoration. I was a bit dumbfounded at Christmas 1990 when we literally put STUFF in the Christmas stockings!
But now that my own children are growing up, our traditions are about to change even more. It's harder to put activities together with our extended families.
Traditions change. They have to for logistic's sake. The beautiful thing about Christmas is the message of Christmas NEVER changes! Christmas is STILL about the Savior being born of a virgin, coming to forgive our sin.
I hope you've trusted Him and accepted His gift to you.
Because of geographical situations, our family would usually alternate Christmas family visits. Mom's family gathered in Alabama, dad's in Georgia. It seemed like every time we were in Alabama, there were sparklers and other fireworks involved. Every trip to Grandmama Faison's yielded a pair of knit slippers.
Doesn't sound like much, but those memories are priceless to me today. All my grandparents, two aunts, an uncle, a cousin, and my dad have all died. Maybe because every year seemed to be in a different place, there weren't annual traditions much in our family for Christmas. I do remember, though, that our get-togethers began to change as time went on.
The grandkids grew up and got married. As we began to have families of our own, it was less likely to get together with our extended families. It was much more hectic because we were scattered more than ever before.
When I married, my wife brought a completely different set of memories and traditions to the table. For example, in our family, stockings at Christmas was little more than decoration. I was a bit dumbfounded at Christmas 1990 when we literally put STUFF in the Christmas stockings!
But now that my own children are growing up, our traditions are about to change even more. It's harder to put activities together with our extended families.
Traditions change. They have to for logistic's sake. The beautiful thing about Christmas is the message of Christmas NEVER changes! Christmas is STILL about the Savior being born of a virgin, coming to forgive our sin.
I hope you've trusted Him and accepted His gift to you.
Monday, June 13, 2011
One, Two, Three ~ TEAM
I've purposely not posted much (or any, actually) about the NBA Finals. I'm not a huge NBA fan, but because I love sports, I do keep up with the games a little bit. Since the Hawks (OK, remember, I AM a Georgian!) have been eliminated, and since I do love baseball more than I like basketball, following these playoffs at a safe distance is about all I can muster.
Last off-season, the Miami Heat made the huge splash with the mega-signing of Chris Bosh and LeBron James to play alongside Dwayne Wade. Mr. James made a huge deal out of this because his former (hometown) team, the Cleveland Cavaliers, just were not going to be good enough to win a Championship. He felt like these three men teaming together would be unbeatable. "I'm going to take my talents to South Beach" and play for the Heat.
They started out rocky before going on an incredible run that seemed like it was inevitably going to result in a championship. Then the team began to struggle again. News began to circulate that Mr. James could not finish a game as strongly as he had started. There was even some embarrassing news from the coach involving players crying in the locker room after a loss.
The Heat won their division, and began a run in the playoffs that seemed unbeatable. They seemed to be peaking at just the right time. At the same time, the Mavericks of Dallas were creating some news of their own in the Western Conference playoffs. As the series' progressed, these two teams met in the Finals.
While the coaching staff obviously did their job on the bench and in preparing their team, there was one player on the Mavericks that stood (quite literally) head and shoulders above everyone else. Dirk Nowitski was the catalyst on this Maverick team that would not give up. Nowitski took the team on his shoulders and led the team throughout the playoffs. Other team members contributed and did their part. The team fed off the leadership of Nowitski on the floor.
I'm not a basketball expert. I fully understand that ESPN will not come calling on me to be the next analyst, but I know enough to get by. And besides all that, this is my blog, and I'm going to offer my opinion here, most likely to the chagrin of most sports writers. Would you like to know the reason the Mavericks won the NBA Finals? TEAMWORK. Yes, there was a coaching staff who called plays and trained their players in a philosophy they wanted to carry out on the court. Yes, there is an owner who pays too much money to these guys to play the game. But they had 12 players on their roster who were able to execute the gameplan and not allow pride to get in the way of the job at hand. They were confident, obviously; but their confidence was channeled through their team instead of individuals.
If we are going to be successful in anything, we must recognize our role in the greater scheme of things. Whether at work, in our families, on our rec-league softball team ~ know your role and do everything within your power to be the very best you can be at executing that role.
Here we go, on three ~~ One, Two, Three ~~ TEAM!!
Last off-season, the Miami Heat made the huge splash with the mega-signing of Chris Bosh and LeBron James to play alongside Dwayne Wade. Mr. James made a huge deal out of this because his former (hometown) team, the Cleveland Cavaliers, just were not going to be good enough to win a Championship. He felt like these three men teaming together would be unbeatable. "I'm going to take my talents to South Beach" and play for the Heat.
They started out rocky before going on an incredible run that seemed like it was inevitably going to result in a championship. Then the team began to struggle again. News began to circulate that Mr. James could not finish a game as strongly as he had started. There was even some embarrassing news from the coach involving players crying in the locker room after a loss.
The Heat won their division, and began a run in the playoffs that seemed unbeatable. They seemed to be peaking at just the right time. At the same time, the Mavericks of Dallas were creating some news of their own in the Western Conference playoffs. As the series' progressed, these two teams met in the Finals.
While the coaching staff obviously did their job on the bench and in preparing their team, there was one player on the Mavericks that stood (quite literally) head and shoulders above everyone else. Dirk Nowitski was the catalyst on this Maverick team that would not give up. Nowitski took the team on his shoulders and led the team throughout the playoffs. Other team members contributed and did their part. The team fed off the leadership of Nowitski on the floor.
I'm not a basketball expert. I fully understand that ESPN will not come calling on me to be the next analyst, but I know enough to get by. And besides all that, this is my blog, and I'm going to offer my opinion here, most likely to the chagrin of most sports writers. Would you like to know the reason the Mavericks won the NBA Finals? TEAMWORK. Yes, there was a coaching staff who called plays and trained their players in a philosophy they wanted to carry out on the court. Yes, there is an owner who pays too much money to these guys to play the game. But they had 12 players on their roster who were able to execute the gameplan and not allow pride to get in the way of the job at hand. They were confident, obviously; but their confidence was channeled through their team instead of individuals.
If we are going to be successful in anything, we must recognize our role in the greater scheme of things. Whether at work, in our families, on our rec-league softball team ~ know your role and do everything within your power to be the very best you can be at executing that role.
Here we go, on three ~~ One, Two, Three ~~ TEAM!!
Friday, June 10, 2011
Lessons Learned From Facebook Groups
A year or two ago, I began a Facebook group for alumni of my college alma mater. I'm glad for the way it has grown, now well over a thousand members, and a couple more administrators have been added to help manage the group. There is a goal now to reach 3,000 members by July. A lofty goal, but certainly one that is attainable in this technologically saavy world.
Since I attended a Christian college, we have tried to maintain a clean community designed specifically for reconnection and fellowship of lifelong friendships that were forged through the college years. Not long ago, I had to do my administrative duty and set the membership to administration approval only. We had been spammed and it was not a pretty sight.
All was well until a controversial opinion was opened in a discussion forum. Anytime there are opinions, there is potential for hurt feelings. Anytime there are opinions, there is potential for argument and heated discussions.
The administrators exchanged e-mails about how to handle the situation. We did not want to censure anyone's opinions, but at the same time, we wanted to promote fellowship and friends reconnecting instead of potentially divisive issues being promoted in a heated exchange. There is a time and place to work out differences and we felt that was not the appropriate place.
As I was sharing this with my wife, we wondered how God must feel when He sees the way we handle our differences of opinions. He created us to have fellowship with Him. He created us to enjoy this Earth He provided. Have you ever wanted to just take Eve and Adam behind the woodshed a time or three?
Sin has caused problems for the entire human race for centuries. It will continue to cause problems for the duration of the human race as we know it on this Earth. Worst of all, sin has caused an eternal separation from God. But because of God's love for us, He has provided a way to be reconciled back to a relationship with Him. There is only one way and it must be on His terms. After all, He created us; not the other way around.
God sent His son, Jesus, to Earth for the express purpose of living a sinless human life while still God, and becoming a sacrifice for our sin. He accomplished that, and when we place our complete faith and trust in Him and His sacrifice, living to honor Him, we can know beyond doubt that we will live with God for eternity.
While on earth, we will not be free from sin's difficulty. There will continue to be pain and suffering because of sin. But the payment for the ultimate sin debt has been paid. We can accept that payment as our own.
What does all this have to do with a Facebook group page? The discussion of our group members occasionally go away from the true purpose of why the group was created. The fellowship sometimes turns south. As the 'creator' of the group, that disappoints me.
How much more does our wayward actions disappoint the Creator? Yet, He is gracious enough to make a way back to Him. Have you accepted His grace and making your effort to live for Him? If you have, thank Him for His grace today. If you haven't, please send me a message and let me share with you some more about how you, too, can obtain His grace for eternity.
Since I attended a Christian college, we have tried to maintain a clean community designed specifically for reconnection and fellowship of lifelong friendships that were forged through the college years. Not long ago, I had to do my administrative duty and set the membership to administration approval only. We had been spammed and it was not a pretty sight.
All was well until a controversial opinion was opened in a discussion forum. Anytime there are opinions, there is potential for hurt feelings. Anytime there are opinions, there is potential for argument and heated discussions.
The administrators exchanged e-mails about how to handle the situation. We did not want to censure anyone's opinions, but at the same time, we wanted to promote fellowship and friends reconnecting instead of potentially divisive issues being promoted in a heated exchange. There is a time and place to work out differences and we felt that was not the appropriate place.
As I was sharing this with my wife, we wondered how God must feel when He sees the way we handle our differences of opinions. He created us to have fellowship with Him. He created us to enjoy this Earth He provided. Have you ever wanted to just take Eve and Adam behind the woodshed a time or three?
Sin has caused problems for the entire human race for centuries. It will continue to cause problems for the duration of the human race as we know it on this Earth. Worst of all, sin has caused an eternal separation from God. But because of God's love for us, He has provided a way to be reconciled back to a relationship with Him. There is only one way and it must be on His terms. After all, He created us; not the other way around.
God sent His son, Jesus, to Earth for the express purpose of living a sinless human life while still God, and becoming a sacrifice for our sin. He accomplished that, and when we place our complete faith and trust in Him and His sacrifice, living to honor Him, we can know beyond doubt that we will live with God for eternity.
While on earth, we will not be free from sin's difficulty. There will continue to be pain and suffering because of sin. But the payment for the ultimate sin debt has been paid. We can accept that payment as our own.
What does all this have to do with a Facebook group page? The discussion of our group members occasionally go away from the true purpose of why the group was created. The fellowship sometimes turns south. As the 'creator' of the group, that disappoints me.
How much more does our wayward actions disappoint the Creator? Yet, He is gracious enough to make a way back to Him. Have you accepted His grace and making your effort to live for Him? If you have, thank Him for His grace today. If you haven't, please send me a message and let me share with you some more about how you, too, can obtain His grace for eternity.
Monday, June 6, 2011
Am I Doing All I Can?
I sang with Trust Quartet at a church yesterday in Indiantown, FL. Since I'm still the 'newbie' in the group, I'm in the process of making my first trips to churches that the group has already visited. Such was the case this week. The group had spoken highly of this church, and the pastor, so I was anxious to see it for myself. I'm not quite sure they spoke highly enough!
Before the worship service, we sat in on a Sunday school class taught by the pastor. I was getting my coffee when Pastor Bruce was catching us up on what the class has been involved in. Three words immediately brought interest: Purpose Driven Life. I've read Rick Warren's book and gone through the study a couple of times already. It really is good stuff. I was impressed with the interaction between this pastor and his people. It was informal, informative, and interesting.
We discussed how important it is to find a place of ministry and DO IT. The opportunities are there. God is equipping His servants to do His work. We need to exercise the willingness of being available to be used. It isn't easy work. It is sometimes thankless work. It can be tiring, but never boring!
The church facilities were beautiful. The church folks were friendly. On this particular Sunday, in addition to hosting Trust Quartet, they were featuring their youth ministry. A group of teens (with their leaders) provided a couple of musical numbers. These young people were so talented! The church is raising money to send these teens to a church camp next month. Sunday for lunch, there was bar-b-cue chicken on the grill with all the fixin's. Simple containers were on the tables for church folks to donate to help the cause. The students stood in a serving line and gave generous portions to us as we held our plates for them. The pastor told us as we were about to leave that they had received just over $2,000!
This church showed me something Sunday. They showed me they love their pastor. They showed me they love their students. They showed me they love their guests who worship with them and lead them in worship. They showed me they want to serve God in whatever opportunity is made available to them. Yes, I was impressed with the church.
Please understand, I've been in some pretty incredible churches. I've been privileged to pastor some as well as lead music and youth in some. I've been able to attend some incredible churches while growing up, and as I've traveled across the southeastern United States. Each one has a couple things in common. First, they are all made up of imperfect human beings. We must realize the humans are not the reason the church is incredible. Second, and most importantly, each of these incredible churches have the common desire to serve Christ in whatever opportunity they have. As you pray for your pastor, your fellow church members / attenders, and your community; do so with this in mind: there is no perfect church, and what can I do to serve God most effectively in this church and community?
Before the worship service, we sat in on a Sunday school class taught by the pastor. I was getting my coffee when Pastor Bruce was catching us up on what the class has been involved in. Three words immediately brought interest: Purpose Driven Life. I've read Rick Warren's book and gone through the study a couple of times already. It really is good stuff. I was impressed with the interaction between this pastor and his people. It was informal, informative, and interesting.
We discussed how important it is to find a place of ministry and DO IT. The opportunities are there. God is equipping His servants to do His work. We need to exercise the willingness of being available to be used. It isn't easy work. It is sometimes thankless work. It can be tiring, but never boring!
The church facilities were beautiful. The church folks were friendly. On this particular Sunday, in addition to hosting Trust Quartet, they were featuring their youth ministry. A group of teens (with their leaders) provided a couple of musical numbers. These young people were so talented! The church is raising money to send these teens to a church camp next month. Sunday for lunch, there was bar-b-cue chicken on the grill with all the fixin's. Simple containers were on the tables for church folks to donate to help the cause. The students stood in a serving line and gave generous portions to us as we held our plates for them. The pastor told us as we were about to leave that they had received just over $2,000!
This church showed me something Sunday. They showed me they love their pastor. They showed me they love their students. They showed me they love their guests who worship with them and lead them in worship. They showed me they want to serve God in whatever opportunity is made available to them. Yes, I was impressed with the church.
Please understand, I've been in some pretty incredible churches. I've been privileged to pastor some as well as lead music and youth in some. I've been able to attend some incredible churches while growing up, and as I've traveled across the southeastern United States. Each one has a couple things in common. First, they are all made up of imperfect human beings. We must realize the humans are not the reason the church is incredible. Second, and most importantly, each of these incredible churches have the common desire to serve Christ in whatever opportunity they have. As you pray for your pastor, your fellow church members / attenders, and your community; do so with this in mind: there is no perfect church, and what can I do to serve God most effectively in this church and community?
Wednesday, June 1, 2011
Is Your Spiritual Workout Yielding Positive Results?
I went to the gym yesterday. Now, if you know me personally, please keep reading after you pick yourself up off the floor. There is a local gym near my home and the monthly, no-contract rates are very reasonable, so I joined. I know I have a lot of weight to lose, and a lot of, ahem ~ muscle that needs to get toned up. It will take a long time to return to respectability, but hey, at least I'm trying.
Oh, back to the gym. When I got there, I headed straight for the treadmill. There are two main reasons I headed that direction. One, I figure I shouldn't hurt myself too bad if I'm just walking. If I get into the whole weight lifting routine without someone there to make sure I'm doing it right, could prove disastrous! The second reason, (and these are not in a particular priority order) is because I had my headphones and there were TVs there. I found ESPN and, wouldn't you know it, the treadmill directly in front was available!
I hopped on, (alright, stepped or even climbed, is more accurate) and figured out the computer. I was born well before 1984, so this took a few seconds. After setting the TV sound for the headphones, and the MPH I wanted to walk, and the virtual incline setting, I was finally able to start walking. I walked and walked. According to the distance setting on the computer, I walked a mile. My heart rate got up to about 124 beats per minute. But I didn't move from that one spot.
Do you feel that way in your spiritual life sometimes? I will confess that I do. Sometimes I feel like I'm doing my best to move forward and then realize that I've been at a standstill working up a sweat and going nowhere. We have all the conveniences surrounding us. We make use of all the latest gadgets and technology. We may even listen to Christian music and teaching on the radio exclusively. But we go nowhere.
There are a couple of Scriptural principles to draw from. First, Paul writes a list of things in Philippians 4. He said whatever things are are true, whatever things are noble, whatever things are just, whatever things are pure, whatever things are lovely, whatever things are of good report, if there is any virtue and if there is anything praiseworthy—meditate on these things. The things which you learned and received and heard and saw in me, these do, and the God of peace will be with you.
Jesus, also while teaching that famous Sermon on the Mount in Matthew 6, reminds us to invest our treasures in Heaven rather than here on earth. Are we so invested in things here that we neglect things that are more important?
What could be in your life causing you to be doing lots of things, maybe for good reasons, but not reaching all the potential we really long for? Are there 'good things' that may be standing in your way? Do some evaluating and earnestly seeking God's Word to help you clear the way between you and your relationship with God today.
Oh, back to the gym. When I got there, I headed straight for the treadmill. There are two main reasons I headed that direction. One, I figure I shouldn't hurt myself too bad if I'm just walking. If I get into the whole weight lifting routine without someone there to make sure I'm doing it right, could prove disastrous! The second reason, (and these are not in a particular priority order) is because I had my headphones and there were TVs there. I found ESPN and, wouldn't you know it, the treadmill directly in front was available!
I hopped on, (alright, stepped or even climbed, is more accurate) and figured out the computer. I was born well before 1984, so this took a few seconds. After setting the TV sound for the headphones, and the MPH I wanted to walk, and the virtual incline setting, I was finally able to start walking. I walked and walked. According to the distance setting on the computer, I walked a mile. My heart rate got up to about 124 beats per minute. But I didn't move from that one spot.
Do you feel that way in your spiritual life sometimes? I will confess that I do. Sometimes I feel like I'm doing my best to move forward and then realize that I've been at a standstill working up a sweat and going nowhere. We have all the conveniences surrounding us. We make use of all the latest gadgets and technology. We may even listen to Christian music and teaching on the radio exclusively. But we go nowhere.
There are a couple of Scriptural principles to draw from. First, Paul writes a list of things in Philippians 4. He said whatever things are are true, whatever things are noble, whatever things are just, whatever things are pure, whatever things are lovely, whatever things are of good report, if there is any virtue and if there is anything praiseworthy—meditate on these things. The things which you learned and received and heard and saw in me, these do, and the God of peace will be with you.
Jesus, also while teaching that famous Sermon on the Mount in Matthew 6, reminds us to invest our treasures in Heaven rather than here on earth. Are we so invested in things here that we neglect things that are more important?
What could be in your life causing you to be doing lots of things, maybe for good reasons, but not reaching all the potential we really long for? Are there 'good things' that may be standing in your way? Do some evaluating and earnestly seeking God's Word to help you clear the way between you and your relationship with God today.
Tuesday, May 31, 2011
Lessons from a Sand Trap
Trust Quartet sang at a Baptist church not far from my home this past weekend. Since it was close, I chose to drive rather than ride the bus. I met the group at a restaurant to eat before going to the church to set up and rehearse. Arriving at the church on Saturday afternoon, I watched as the bus made a wide turn in the parking lot. Suddenly the bus stopped. Something didn't look quite right. Ahhh ~ it had gotten stuck in the sand.
In case you aren't familiar with living close to the ocean, everything is quite sandy. No, really ~ it's SANDY!! The bus is quite heavy, and the soft sand was no match. Practically down to the axle, the bus was stuck and it wasn't going anywhere!
The pastor of the church called one of the church members who lived nearby and he brought over his back hoe. We watched as the back hoe pulled a little this way then a little more that way. Eventually, the back hoe pulled the bus out of the sandy trap and we were able to unload it and rehearse a bit before bedtime.
I didn't get much sleep Saturday night. I woke up thinking about how the bus got stuck in the sand. David wrote a Psalm similar to that. He wrote (40:1-3) how that God had rescued him from a life mired in the pit of clay. He spoke of how God had set him back on solid footing. God put a new song in his mouth, and as David sang that new song, people would see it and fear, and trust in the LORD.
In our concerts, we sing a song called Sinner Saved By Grace. That is all we are. Although I'm a Christ follower, and desire to imitate Him as closely as I can, I'm human, and I will fail from time to time. I'm not perfect, but thankfully, I am forgiven and seeking to live as close to what Christ desires as I can.
As we sang that song Sunday, I was thanking God for bringing me out of the miry pit of sinfulness. I'm thankful He has set me on solid footing, and following as closely as I can to Him, people can see Him through me. Isn't that what a Christ-follower should desire to do? Lead people by our example and spoken word to the Christ that longs to free them from the pitfalls in their lives?
Do your best today to find some way to communicate Christ's grace, forgiveness, holiness, and purity to someone you know. Then, pray that what you have said to that person will encourage them to seek to be closer to Christ.
In case you aren't familiar with living close to the ocean, everything is quite sandy. No, really ~ it's SANDY!! The bus is quite heavy, and the soft sand was no match. Practically down to the axle, the bus was stuck and it wasn't going anywhere!
The pastor of the church called one of the church members who lived nearby and he brought over his back hoe. We watched as the back hoe pulled a little this way then a little more that way. Eventually, the back hoe pulled the bus out of the sandy trap and we were able to unload it and rehearse a bit before bedtime.
I didn't get much sleep Saturday night. I woke up thinking about how the bus got stuck in the sand. David wrote a Psalm similar to that. He wrote (40:1-3) how that God had rescued him from a life mired in the pit of clay. He spoke of how God had set him back on solid footing. God put a new song in his mouth, and as David sang that new song, people would see it and fear, and trust in the LORD.
In our concerts, we sing a song called Sinner Saved By Grace. That is all we are. Although I'm a Christ follower, and desire to imitate Him as closely as I can, I'm human, and I will fail from time to time. I'm not perfect, but thankfully, I am forgiven and seeking to live as close to what Christ desires as I can.
As we sang that song Sunday, I was thanking God for bringing me out of the miry pit of sinfulness. I'm thankful He has set me on solid footing, and following as closely as I can to Him, people can see Him through me. Isn't that what a Christ-follower should desire to do? Lead people by our example and spoken word to the Christ that longs to free them from the pitfalls in their lives?
Do your best today to find some way to communicate Christ's grace, forgiveness, holiness, and purity to someone you know. Then, pray that what you have said to that person will encourage them to seek to be closer to Christ.
Seventeen Years Ago Today
Do you remember what happened 17 years ago today? Most of the time, I don't. But today is different. Seventeen years ago I drove with my wife to Baptist Hospital in Nashville for the birth of our second daughter.
It doesn't seem possible that its been that long. While I remember some things in particular, there are a few details that I'm sure would require a bit of brain-jogging. (Hey, I just made up a new word!) In fact, I was talking to my wife a few days ago about the early childhood days of our kids. I remember some specific activities very well, but it's hard to remember the lifestyle we had then.
By that I mean, its hard to remember what they did on a consistent basis. Sure, there are some things that stick out in my mind, but not as much as I thought it would be at this stage of life.
In any event, the whole reason for this particular blog post is to say happy birthday to my daughter ~~ Abigail. I hope you enjoy your day! And a little inside note to her . . . "Yes, you are going to school today!"
Tuesday, May 24, 2011
New Friends in Charlotte Harbor
I made some new friends Sunday. Tyler and Michaela in Charlotte Harbor are a couple of the cutest (and well behaved) kids in town. By the way, if Michaela or her family reads this, I sure hope I'm spelling her name correctly.
Tyler is a big help to Lance, his dad. When we were loading the bus, Tyler was right there, offering his help to us. Michaela is a little doll ~ even if she is a self-proclaimed dare-devil. She has the spunk needed to keep up with an older brother!
Sunday lunch was at Red Lobster, and while there, Tyler and I learned all about the lobsters in the tank waiting to be someone's lunch. Our new friend, Dakota, at the restaurant, took one out and Tyler was brave enough to pet it. Then, we watched said lobster grab a coaster and move it around a bit. Notice, I said Tyler was the one brave enough to pet the lobster. I kept a safe distance, assuring myself the lobster didn't mistake my finger for a coaster.
Thanks, Tyler and Michaela for being my new friends. I sure hope I am able to see you again soon.
Tyler is a big help to Lance, his dad. When we were loading the bus, Tyler was right there, offering his help to us. Michaela is a little doll ~ even if she is a self-proclaimed dare-devil. She has the spunk needed to keep up with an older brother!
Sunday lunch was at Red Lobster, and while there, Tyler and I learned all about the lobsters in the tank waiting to be someone's lunch. Our new friend, Dakota, at the restaurant, took one out and Tyler was brave enough to pet it. Then, we watched said lobster grab a coaster and move it around a bit. Notice, I said Tyler was the one brave enough to pet the lobster. I kept a safe distance, assuring myself the lobster didn't mistake my finger for a coaster.
Thanks, Tyler and Michaela for being my new friends. I sure hope I am able to see you again soon.
Happy Birthday, Dad
Today is a day of remembrance for me. For the better part of the first 25 years of my life, May 24 was a day of celebration in our family. My dad would celebrate his birthday today. As I type this, I'm trying to think of some of the specific celebrations, and honestly, I can't remember any to share. Mom made lots of cakes, I'm sure. Most of them, at least in the later years, were probably known as "thin-layer chocolate cake". Those were his favorite.
If he were still living, he'd be 76 years young today. I say it that way, because I remember him as being a young man. After all, he was only 55 when melanoma cancer took over his body. He was still playing softball regularly until fairly late in his life. Dad enjoyed sports ~ he played golf, softball, and enjoyed fishing. He taught me to be a Braves fan long before the team started winning.
More importantly, dad was a man of integrity and godliness. Perfect? Far from it. Did he get on my nerves? Hey, he was my dad ~ of course, he did. But I'd gladly trade a few frayed nerves to be able to pick his brain again. I'd obviously look beyond some of the imperfections to be able to hear him preach again.
Dad taught me to have a love for music. He sang in his high school FFA quartet, sang in his college choir, and ministered through music in many facets of church ministry. Incidentally, I sang a couple years in my high school literary quartet and sang in the same college's choir when I attended there. I followed many of my dad's footsteps, but if I can be half the man of integrity and godliness he was, I'll be a great man.
Ken Faison (1935-1990), I miss you. I love you, and look forward to the day we'll be reunited in Heaven. Oh, and Happy Birthday, dad.
If he were still living, he'd be 76 years young today. I say it that way, because I remember him as being a young man. After all, he was only 55 when melanoma cancer took over his body. He was still playing softball regularly until fairly late in his life. Dad enjoyed sports ~ he played golf, softball, and enjoyed fishing. He taught me to be a Braves fan long before the team started winning.
More importantly, dad was a man of integrity and godliness. Perfect? Far from it. Did he get on my nerves? Hey, he was my dad ~ of course, he did. But I'd gladly trade a few frayed nerves to be able to pick his brain again. I'd obviously look beyond some of the imperfections to be able to hear him preach again.
Dad taught me to have a love for music. He sang in his high school FFA quartet, sang in his college choir, and ministered through music in many facets of church ministry. Incidentally, I sang a couple years in my high school literary quartet and sang in the same college's choir when I attended there. I followed many of my dad's footsteps, but if I can be half the man of integrity and godliness he was, I'll be a great man.
Ken Faison (1935-1990), I miss you. I love you, and look forward to the day we'll be reunited in Heaven. Oh, and Happy Birthday, dad.
Wednesday, May 11, 2011
God's Great Things
"Call to me, and I will answer you, and show you great and mighty things, which you do not know."
Have there been times in your life when you had no idea which way to turn? Perhaps you had serious questions or concerns about a decision that needed to be made. Maybe you found yourself troubled and afraid of what was about to happen.
The prophet Jeremiah in the Old Testament was known for his somber state of mind. His nickname was The Weeping Prophet. He was a melancholy, if not a depressed man. Yet God wanted to use him to speak to His people. Jeremiah had found himself imprisoned, and God was speaking to him. It was Jeremiah to whom God was speaking when He said, "While you were in your mother's womb, I knew you." What an encouragement to a troubled spirit to remember that the Creator of the Universe knows you ~ individually!
But in 33:3 of Jeremiah, God encourages His prophet to call on Him. Have faith in Him and He would show Jeremiah things he could not even imagine. God has not changed. God is still able to show us things that would simply blow us away!
Be encouraged to trust God to show you His best. He longs to encourage and empower you through His Spirit. Enjoy your relationship with God today and allow Him to simply blow you away!
Have there been times in your life when you had no idea which way to turn? Perhaps you had serious questions or concerns about a decision that needed to be made. Maybe you found yourself troubled and afraid of what was about to happen.
The prophet Jeremiah in the Old Testament was known for his somber state of mind. His nickname was The Weeping Prophet. He was a melancholy, if not a depressed man. Yet God wanted to use him to speak to His people. Jeremiah had found himself imprisoned, and God was speaking to him. It was Jeremiah to whom God was speaking when He said, "While you were in your mother's womb, I knew you." What an encouragement to a troubled spirit to remember that the Creator of the Universe knows you ~ individually!
But in 33:3 of Jeremiah, God encourages His prophet to call on Him. Have faith in Him and He would show Jeremiah things he could not even imagine. God has not changed. God is still able to show us things that would simply blow us away!
Be encouraged to trust God to show you His best. He longs to encourage and empower you through His Spirit. Enjoy your relationship with God today and allow Him to simply blow you away!
Tuesday, May 10, 2011
Tweet of the Day
Today's Tweet of the Day comes to my twitter account from D_Gibson who says, "Don't hate me for who I am. Love me for who I can be."
What truth! In spite of my inconsistencies, immaturity, and instabilities, God doesn't hate me at all. God chooses to love me for the man I can become. He desires that I grow and continue allowing Him to mold and shape me into the vessel He can use best to build His kingdom.
I'm still continuing to wrap my mind around this good news. My desire should be to continually be more like Christ. In light of that, I'm setting a new goal for myself. Lord, let me not focus on the frailties of those around me but to strive to see them as God sees them ~ loaded with potential! Let me encourage you first, to commit yourself to the Christ who loves you. Then, if you are a Christ-follower, desire to see others as Christ sees them; loaded with potential for greatness!
What truth! In spite of my inconsistencies, immaturity, and instabilities, God doesn't hate me at all. God chooses to love me for the man I can become. He desires that I grow and continue allowing Him to mold and shape me into the vessel He can use best to build His kingdom.
I'm still continuing to wrap my mind around this good news. My desire should be to continually be more like Christ. In light of that, I'm setting a new goal for myself. Lord, let me not focus on the frailties of those around me but to strive to see them as God sees them ~ loaded with potential! Let me encourage you first, to commit yourself to the Christ who loves you. Then, if you are a Christ-follower, desire to see others as Christ sees them; loaded with potential for greatness!
Wednesday, March 30, 2011
I Need Easter This Year!
The beginning of this blog could be seen as morbid. I will apologize up front for that, but I promise if you'll read the entire blog, you will see there is more to the story. In fact, FAR MORE to the story!
A few weeks ago, I was told of a young 16 year old high school student in a neighboring town who decided to skip school. Later that day, he was involved in a auto accident. He did not survive. He was thrust into eternity far too soon by our human, fleshly time table.
Right on the heels of that, a friend of mine from my college days, only a year older than I, went to sleep in his own bed. The next face he saw was that of Jesus! A massive heart attack to this young man who was involved in mountain biking came as a shock to all who knew him. This was an incredibly bittersweet occasion. Paul, writing in the New Testament put it somewhat in perspective. He said to be absent from the body is to be present with Christ. We who are left behind are the ones suffering from the painful separation caused by death.
Also, within the past few days (not weeks or months, mind you), I have had friends with relatives pass from this life. Some have been expected, some not quite. Some have known and trusted Christ as Savior, others have struggled with wondering if their loved ones had made that commitment to the One who died as a sacrifice for their sin.
Still, as I write this, another family of friends are struggling with a daughter / sister being placed in hospice care. They travel now to visit with her before she likely slips into a coma and passes from this life. There is much pain in that scenario.
I watched a little bit of the news earlier. Wars and fightings continue to abound. People around the world are feeling the effects of Libya, Iran, Iraq, and Afghanistan. The news continues with the quakes and tsunami in Japan. We turn to our own Nation and are confronted with economic struggles amid other problems.
It was likely a similar scenario that Bill and Gloria Gaither found themselves in early in their young family's life. It was the late 60s, the United States was in turmoil over racial tensions, the conflicts in Viet Nam, and more. This young, midwestern family of four learned that another baby was on the way.
Why would anyone want to bring more children into this world? They fought with their emotions and as Spring drew closer, had a head knowledge that life should get better. Perhaps it was merely the dreary winter that had brought about the emotional struggles.
It took a little blade of grass that had fought its way through the asphalt parking lot, stretching itself toward the heavens to help the Gaithers break free. Just as that grass had defeated all odds, persevering to the light above, the Gaithers knew that they, too, could defeat the odds.
They realized a very important factor, though. They knew they could not defeat anything alone. They recognized that the only way their loneliness and struggles could be defeated would be because Jesus had risen from the dead. It was the beginning of that now classic song, Because He Lives! Because He Lives, I can face tomorrow. Because He Lives, all fear is gone! Because I Know, He holds the future, and life is worth living Because He Lives!
Reflecting on the world's events, the pain of death, and the seemingly hopeless state of affairs, it would be easy to become discouraged. This is one year, I need Easter. I need the refreshing reminder that although Jesus died, He has now risen! He has risen, indeed!
Jesus' followers likely felt somewhat as we do today. Their lives had been turned upside down in a matter of days. The One they had trusted with their very lives was now dead. They feared for their own lives. But with that first Easter morning, everything changed! Perhaps you need a good dose of encouragement. Perhaps you need Easter this year to remind you of the victory that belongs to the Christian. Our hope is not found in job security or retirement funds. Our hope is not even found in our family or the church. Our hope must be founded in none other than Jesus Christ. He is Risen!
Now, perhaps you've read all the way through this and realize you have not come to terms with your own relationship with Jesus. Your hope has been in things other than the truth of the Christ. Feel free to e-mail me and let's discuss further the opportunity of discovering real, true hope. I need this Easter! Do you?
A few weeks ago, I was told of a young 16 year old high school student in a neighboring town who decided to skip school. Later that day, he was involved in a auto accident. He did not survive. He was thrust into eternity far too soon by our human, fleshly time table.
Right on the heels of that, a friend of mine from my college days, only a year older than I, went to sleep in his own bed. The next face he saw was that of Jesus! A massive heart attack to this young man who was involved in mountain biking came as a shock to all who knew him. This was an incredibly bittersweet occasion. Paul, writing in the New Testament put it somewhat in perspective. He said to be absent from the body is to be present with Christ. We who are left behind are the ones suffering from the painful separation caused by death.
Also, within the past few days (not weeks or months, mind you), I have had friends with relatives pass from this life. Some have been expected, some not quite. Some have known and trusted Christ as Savior, others have struggled with wondering if their loved ones had made that commitment to the One who died as a sacrifice for their sin.
Still, as I write this, another family of friends are struggling with a daughter / sister being placed in hospice care. They travel now to visit with her before she likely slips into a coma and passes from this life. There is much pain in that scenario.
I watched a little bit of the news earlier. Wars and fightings continue to abound. People around the world are feeling the effects of Libya, Iran, Iraq, and Afghanistan. The news continues with the quakes and tsunami in Japan. We turn to our own Nation and are confronted with economic struggles amid other problems.
It was likely a similar scenario that Bill and Gloria Gaither found themselves in early in their young family's life. It was the late 60s, the United States was in turmoil over racial tensions, the conflicts in Viet Nam, and more. This young, midwestern family of four learned that another baby was on the way.
Why would anyone want to bring more children into this world? They fought with their emotions and as Spring drew closer, had a head knowledge that life should get better. Perhaps it was merely the dreary winter that had brought about the emotional struggles.
It took a little blade of grass that had fought its way through the asphalt parking lot, stretching itself toward the heavens to help the Gaithers break free. Just as that grass had defeated all odds, persevering to the light above, the Gaithers knew that they, too, could defeat the odds.
They realized a very important factor, though. They knew they could not defeat anything alone. They recognized that the only way their loneliness and struggles could be defeated would be because Jesus had risen from the dead. It was the beginning of that now classic song, Because He Lives! Because He Lives, I can face tomorrow. Because He Lives, all fear is gone! Because I Know, He holds the future, and life is worth living Because He Lives!
Reflecting on the world's events, the pain of death, and the seemingly hopeless state of affairs, it would be easy to become discouraged. This is one year, I need Easter. I need the refreshing reminder that although Jesus died, He has now risen! He has risen, indeed!
Jesus' followers likely felt somewhat as we do today. Their lives had been turned upside down in a matter of days. The One they had trusted with their very lives was now dead. They feared for their own lives. But with that first Easter morning, everything changed! Perhaps you need a good dose of encouragement. Perhaps you need Easter this year to remind you of the victory that belongs to the Christian. Our hope is not found in job security or retirement funds. Our hope is not even found in our family or the church. Our hope must be founded in none other than Jesus Christ. He is Risen!
Now, perhaps you've read all the way through this and realize you have not come to terms with your own relationship with Jesus. Your hope has been in things other than the truth of the Christ. Feel free to e-mail me and let's discuss further the opportunity of discovering real, true hope. I need this Easter! Do you?
Wednesday, March 2, 2011
Do You Remember Being Two?
I recently heard a new song. It wasn't just any ordinary song, either. I'm not sure if it has ever been recorded or even written on staff paper or a lead sheet. The song, by and large, is just a cute comedy song ~ that's exactly what it is intended to be. It's author performed it live in my presence, and I laughed. I genuinely laughed.
Beyond the laughter though, I began to think and assess its words. Leave it to a preacher to do that, right? The song simply answered questions about our younger years. Much younger. What's the title of this song? (Thought you'd never ask!) It's Just What You Do When You're Two. What did you think about when you were two? What was your logic at the ripe old age of two? We've heard of those Terrible Two's; the author mentioned an interesting thought as he prepared to entertain us. For those new parents who have yet to experience a three year old child, this is what you have to look forward to: A three year old is merely a two year old with experience! Doesn't that sound encouraging?
Josh Taylor, the author of the song, wrote this about his experiences as a dad of a two year old. Incidentally, the lad is a cute three year old now. He was able to capture and put to music some questions all parents ask themselves from time to time. Incidentally, after you read my blog, feel free to click on the link and visit his site. He's pretty insightful, and insanely funny. Being around him for a few hours, I'm pretty sure he has a serious side to him that could help a person understand the importance of living a solid Christian life. He is indeed an impressive young man.
Now, back to the assessment; the Apostle Paul, in the New Testament, wrote that when we are young, we act young. Sounds profound, eh? Seriously, when we were a child, we spoke as a child, we acted as a child, etc. But when we became a man (or woman, as the case may be), we put away the childish things. Later in the New Testament, the writer of Hebrews (we really don't know for sure who that is) compares a young Christian to a little baby. He says that as young Christians desire the pure milk of the Word, when we grow, we should desire the meat of the Word. We should be constantly growing. We should not be satisfied with the status quo. We should not want to stay merely a child in our faith.
For the more seasoned believer, take some time to think back to your early Christian life. What are some ways you have grown in your faith? For the new believer, stay in the milk and continue to grow daily. For the unbeliever who may be reading this, are you skeptical of all this Christianity stuff? Are you just not sure it is for you? Let me hear from you. I would love to exchange communication with you about where you stand in a relationship with Christ.
Beyond the laughter though, I began to think and assess its words. Leave it to a preacher to do that, right? The song simply answered questions about our younger years. Much younger. What's the title of this song? (Thought you'd never ask!) It's Just What You Do When You're Two. What did you think about when you were two? What was your logic at the ripe old age of two? We've heard of those Terrible Two's; the author mentioned an interesting thought as he prepared to entertain us. For those new parents who have yet to experience a three year old child, this is what you have to look forward to: A three year old is merely a two year old with experience! Doesn't that sound encouraging?
Josh Taylor, the author of the song, wrote this about his experiences as a dad of a two year old. Incidentally, the lad is a cute three year old now. He was able to capture and put to music some questions all parents ask themselves from time to time. Incidentally, after you read my blog, feel free to click on the link and visit his site. He's pretty insightful, and insanely funny. Being around him for a few hours, I'm pretty sure he has a serious side to him that could help a person understand the importance of living a solid Christian life. He is indeed an impressive young man.
Now, back to the assessment; the Apostle Paul, in the New Testament, wrote that when we are young, we act young. Sounds profound, eh? Seriously, when we were a child, we spoke as a child, we acted as a child, etc. But when we became a man (or woman, as the case may be), we put away the childish things. Later in the New Testament, the writer of Hebrews (we really don't know for sure who that is) compares a young Christian to a little baby. He says that as young Christians desire the pure milk of the Word, when we grow, we should desire the meat of the Word. We should be constantly growing. We should not be satisfied with the status quo. We should not want to stay merely a child in our faith.
For the more seasoned believer, take some time to think back to your early Christian life. What are some ways you have grown in your faith? For the new believer, stay in the milk and continue to grow daily. For the unbeliever who may be reading this, are you skeptical of all this Christianity stuff? Are you just not sure it is for you? Let me hear from you. I would love to exchange communication with you about where you stand in a relationship with Christ.
Wednesday, January 19, 2011
The Core of Your Worship
This past Sunday morning, Trust Quartet sang at a church that reminded me of my younger days growing up in southern Georgia. It was in a rural area of central Florida and although many would consider it a small, country church, the Lord met with us in a very special way.
I don't know how many people were crammed in that auditorium, but there wasn't many more people who would have come in and found a seat. Those who were there laughed a little, cried a little, clapped a little ~ but worshipped a lot! There were even a few shouts across the room.
People have long worshipped in different ways. Some believe that unless a preacher hacks his way up and down the aisles of a church, true worship has not taken place. Some believe that worship is more dignified and quiet, reflecting upon God's holiness and purity. Still others are not comfortable expressing worship unless there is hands-raising, eyes heavenward singing of choruses while following words on a screen at the front of the building. The style of worship is as much cultural as it is biblical. The core of worship, however, is at the heart of the individual.
The woman at the well in John 4 was challenged by Christ to worship sincerely in spirit and truth. It would be impossible to convince me that the leper who was healed didn't worship as he returned to thank Jesus. Likewise, when Abraham and Isaac went to Mt. Moriah to sacrifice, both worshipped as never before when they heard the ram that was caught in the thicket.
God does not demand our worship. It would cease to be worship if it were the result of a demand. He does, however, desire our worship. In an evaulation of your worship, what word could describe your worship? Is your worship defined by a style or your heart? Those who worship HIM must worship HIM in spirit and truth.
I don't know how many people were crammed in that auditorium, but there wasn't many more people who would have come in and found a seat. Those who were there laughed a little, cried a little, clapped a little ~ but worshipped a lot! There were even a few shouts across the room.
People have long worshipped in different ways. Some believe that unless a preacher hacks his way up and down the aisles of a church, true worship has not taken place. Some believe that worship is more dignified and quiet, reflecting upon God's holiness and purity. Still others are not comfortable expressing worship unless there is hands-raising, eyes heavenward singing of choruses while following words on a screen at the front of the building. The style of worship is as much cultural as it is biblical. The core of worship, however, is at the heart of the individual.
The woman at the well in John 4 was challenged by Christ to worship sincerely in spirit and truth. It would be impossible to convince me that the leper who was healed didn't worship as he returned to thank Jesus. Likewise, when Abraham and Isaac went to Mt. Moriah to sacrifice, both worshipped as never before when they heard the ram that was caught in the thicket.
God does not demand our worship. It would cease to be worship if it were the result of a demand. He does, however, desire our worship. In an evaulation of your worship, what word could describe your worship? Is your worship defined by a style or your heart? Those who worship HIM must worship HIM in spirit and truth.
Friday, December 17, 2010
Thoughts of Christmas Giving
What do you want for Christmas this year? The answer to that question has changed (or at least should have changed) from year to year as we grow older. Our ideas of toys change as we mature. Instead of little girls asking for the latest dolls, they likely ask for jewelry, make-up, or clothes. The little boys who were thrilled with cars, footballs, or moto-cross bikes, now look forward to tools, recliners, or electronic gadgets.
I remember when I was nine years old, I got that electric Monday Night Football game. The one with plastic men on a plastic football field with a battery operated vibrator that caused the men to move all over the field. Last week, I asked for a weed-eater. Of course, I mentioned a few other things, too, but you get the idea.
Shifting gears to a more serious note though, what do you really want for Christmas this year? The complete flipside might cause us to beg for peace on earth and goodwill toward men. I overheard the complaints of a lady in a crowded line at McDonald's recently. I so much wanted to approach her, smile and say, "Merry Christmas!"
Realistically, in thinking about giving this year, could we seek to give more grace? What about kindness and gentleness? Could we spread the joy that comes from a relationship with Christ to those with whom we come in contact? Paul wrote to the Galatians that we should exemplify love, joy, peace, gentleness, etc. (see 5:22-23)
God's gift to mankind came in the form of a Baby. As a young man, Jesus willingly gave Himself as a sacrifice for our sin. He has set the example of giving. As we willingly give our lives to serve God, let's do it by giving the fruit of the Spirit to our fellow-man.
I remember when I was nine years old, I got that electric Monday Night Football game. The one with plastic men on a plastic football field with a battery operated vibrator that caused the men to move all over the field. Last week, I asked for a weed-eater. Of course, I mentioned a few other things, too, but you get the idea.
Shifting gears to a more serious note though, what do you really want for Christmas this year? The complete flipside might cause us to beg for peace on earth and goodwill toward men. I overheard the complaints of a lady in a crowded line at McDonald's recently. I so much wanted to approach her, smile and say, "Merry Christmas!"
Realistically, in thinking about giving this year, could we seek to give more grace? What about kindness and gentleness? Could we spread the joy that comes from a relationship with Christ to those with whom we come in contact? Paul wrote to the Galatians that we should exemplify love, joy, peace, gentleness, etc. (see 5:22-23)
God's gift to mankind came in the form of a Baby. As a young man, Jesus willingly gave Himself as a sacrifice for our sin. He has set the example of giving. As we willingly give our lives to serve God, let's do it by giving the fruit of the Spirit to our fellow-man.
Saturday, December 11, 2010
He Keeps Me Singing!
One of my favorite hymns begins by saying, "There's within my heart a melody!" One of my favorite Psalms says, "He has put a new song in my mouth..." (40:3). I love to sing! Among my life-long passions has been to sing about the Good News of Jesus.
Several years ago, I had the privilege of singing with a group of friends for a video / audio recording. It was done "Gaither-style", a choir made up of various soloists and groups who would also perform individually. The title of the project was He Keeps Me Singing! What a hymn!
Recently, I began singing with a quartet. One of the songs we have used early in our services has been, "He Keeps Me Singing!" The faces in the congregations where we have sung that song are filled with joyous expressions. Many find themselves singing along and / or clapping to the beat.
Is there a song in your heart? Is there a melody ringing within your soul that needs to be shared with someone? Perhaps you'd like to share your favorite hymn or gospel song with a friend. Allow the melody in your heart to be as a cup overflowing with joy. Let that joy spill over on someone today who may need some encouragement.
Several years ago, I had the privilege of singing with a group of friends for a video / audio recording. It was done "Gaither-style", a choir made up of various soloists and groups who would also perform individually. The title of the project was He Keeps Me Singing! What a hymn!
Recently, I began singing with a quartet. One of the songs we have used early in our services has been, "He Keeps Me Singing!" The faces in the congregations where we have sung that song are filled with joyous expressions. Many find themselves singing along and / or clapping to the beat.
Is there a song in your heart? Is there a melody ringing within your soul that needs to be shared with someone? Perhaps you'd like to share your favorite hymn or gospel song with a friend. Allow the melody in your heart to be as a cup overflowing with joy. Let that joy spill over on someone today who may need some encouragement.
Friday, December 10, 2010
Christmas Traditions
As a young boy growing up, our family always lived a bit of a distance away from our extended family. And, because my grandparents lived in different states, it meant we had to choose which family to visit for the Christmas holiday. Very rare was the year when we would be able to visit both.
Each set of extended family had their own "traditions." For example, I remember on Christmas Day gathering in the living room at my grandmother's home in Alabama to open gifts. One of the grandchildren would be the appointed Santa Claus for that year and hand out the gifts. We could always tell when a 'gag gift' was going to be given. The guilty wrapper had a camera pointed at the wrappee when it was about to be opened. Many laughs were shared around the fireplace and the Christmas tree.
Now, we're older. Grandmama has gone on to be with Jesus, as has my aunt, my dad, and a cousin. My generation has families of our own, and it is difficult to all get together again. We have begun our own Christmas traditions. My daughters will only hear stories of Christmases past, and it is my priviledge to share them. Being able to share the memories of those traditions is actually one of the highlights of being a dad.
One tradition has not changed in all the years. Someone, no matter where we are, will read at least one of the Christmas accounts from Scripture. When Mary and Joseph couldn't get into the inn, but had to sleep in the barn; Jesus was born, and because there was no crib, was laid in a manger, wrapped in swaddling clothes. We'll read about the angels telling the shepherds who were minding their own business in the field, but dropped everything to come running to the city. We'll read how those shepherds, the typically rejected in society, would be among the first to welcome Jesus to Earth from His splendor of Heaven. We'll read of their excitement as they are able to spread the news to anyone else who will listen.
Therein lies the point. My job as a parent is to share with my children the excitement of what Christmas is all about. Not necessarily the material gifts wrapped under the Christmas tree. As much fun as it is to have one of those white elephant gifts waiting to be unwrapped by an unsuspecting family member in good humor, the important part of this day is remembering that we are here to celebrate Jesus. As we spend time with our family traditions, make sure one of yours is to take the time to read about the real reason for Christmas. From the Bible. The New Testament books of Matthew (chapter 1) and Luke (chapter 2) give those accounts. If that isn't yet a tradition of yours, let 2010 be the most important year to date, and begin to share with your family the real Christmas story.
I'd love to hear your Christmas ideas and creative ways of sharing the all-important Christmas account with your family this year.
Blessings, my friends!
Each set of extended family had their own "traditions." For example, I remember on Christmas Day gathering in the living room at my grandmother's home in Alabama to open gifts. One of the grandchildren would be the appointed Santa Claus for that year and hand out the gifts. We could always tell when a 'gag gift' was going to be given. The guilty wrapper had a camera pointed at the wrappee when it was about to be opened. Many laughs were shared around the fireplace and the Christmas tree.
Now, we're older. Grandmama has gone on to be with Jesus, as has my aunt, my dad, and a cousin. My generation has families of our own, and it is difficult to all get together again. We have begun our own Christmas traditions. My daughters will only hear stories of Christmases past, and it is my priviledge to share them. Being able to share the memories of those traditions is actually one of the highlights of being a dad.
One tradition has not changed in all the years. Someone, no matter where we are, will read at least one of the Christmas accounts from Scripture. When Mary and Joseph couldn't get into the inn, but had to sleep in the barn; Jesus was born, and because there was no crib, was laid in a manger, wrapped in swaddling clothes. We'll read about the angels telling the shepherds who were minding their own business in the field, but dropped everything to come running to the city. We'll read how those shepherds, the typically rejected in society, would be among the first to welcome Jesus to Earth from His splendor of Heaven. We'll read of their excitement as they are able to spread the news to anyone else who will listen.
Therein lies the point. My job as a parent is to share with my children the excitement of what Christmas is all about. Not necessarily the material gifts wrapped under the Christmas tree. As much fun as it is to have one of those white elephant gifts waiting to be unwrapped by an unsuspecting family member in good humor, the important part of this day is remembering that we are here to celebrate Jesus. As we spend time with our family traditions, make sure one of yours is to take the time to read about the real reason for Christmas. From the Bible. The New Testament books of Matthew (chapter 1) and Luke (chapter 2) give those accounts. If that isn't yet a tradition of yours, let 2010 be the most important year to date, and begin to share with your family the real Christmas story.
I'd love to hear your Christmas ideas and creative ways of sharing the all-important Christmas account with your family this year.
Blessings, my friends!
What's Wrong With Merry Christmas?
We live in an increasingly politically correct culture. In a society that prefers Season's Greetings and Happy Holidays, I'll confess that I'm not a very politically correct person. Especially when it pertains to Christmas!
Approaching this Christmas season, the thought occurred to me that we only hear this struggle at Christmas. The other holidays of the year are treated with greetings of their own merit. From Valentine's Day to Veteran's Day, each holiday seems to have it's own greeting.
While some may argue that we group Thanksgiving, Christmas, and New Year's in order to refer to the season or holidays, both Thanksgiving and New Year's seems to have their own greeting ~ leaving Christmas out in the proverbial cold. (There is absolutely no seasonal pun intended there!) Incidentally, before the freedom from religion card gets played, I would suggest that even Hanukkah and Kwanzaa gets their own respect from a culture that seems to refuse Christmas the same.
Would you join me in wishing those in your sphere of influence a very Merry Christmas? A genuine smile and a Merry Christmas could go a long way in making someone's day!
Approaching this Christmas season, the thought occurred to me that we only hear this struggle at Christmas. The other holidays of the year are treated with greetings of their own merit. From Valentine's Day to Veteran's Day, each holiday seems to have it's own greeting.
While some may argue that we group Thanksgiving, Christmas, and New Year's in order to refer to the season or holidays, both Thanksgiving and New Year's seems to have their own greeting ~ leaving Christmas out in the proverbial cold. (There is absolutely no seasonal pun intended there!) Incidentally, before the freedom from religion card gets played, I would suggest that even Hanukkah and Kwanzaa gets their own respect from a culture that seems to refuse Christmas the same.
Would you join me in wishing those in your sphere of influence a very Merry Christmas? A genuine smile and a Merry Christmas could go a long way in making someone's day!
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